Honey Kissed Body Butter Massage Cream

A rich spa body butter recipe perfect for sensual massage... and silk-smooth skin!

Sweet, smooth and silky soft. This yummy body butter massage cream is not only ideal for romantic massage, but also leaves you with sensational skin when you're done playing with it.

This recipe is lightly sweetened with honey and makes an unscented but edible body butter (it actually smells oh-so-slightly of honey).

Or you can add essential oils if you prefer a scented body butter massage cream (not edible, though!) I've included four optional scent blends for you to try. Enjoy!

Honey Kissed Body Butter Massage Cream


3/4 cup (4.5oz) Cocoa Butter

3/4 cup (4.5oz) Shea Butter

2 tablespoons Apricot Kernel or Jojoba oil

1/4 teaspoon Vitamin E (or 1 capsule)

1 tablespoon Honey powder (optional for edible body butter)



Put about an inch (2.5cm) of water in the bottom of a medium-sized pot and heat to a low simmer.


Place the Cocoa and Shea butter in a large heat-proof glass measuring cup (such as Pyrex.) Place the measuring cup in the water and warm slowly over a low heat until the butters are melted.


Cook at a low heat for about 20 minutes (helps reduce the "grainy" feeling of the cocoa butter.) Do not allow to boil (or even simmer!)


Remove from the heat and add the remaining ingredients. Using a metal spoon, stir to combine. (A wooden spoon absorbs the scent of essential oils.)


Using an electric hand mixer, whip the butter continually for several minutes (just like you would frosting.) As you keep mixing, it will start to look like whipped cream. The more you whip it, the lighter it will become (surprise!)

  • Option 1: Cold Water Bath. Set the measuring cup into a large bowl filled with ice water to help cool the butter faster. Whip the butter continually until peaks form on top. Do this on and off every 5 minutes or so until you reach the desired consistency.

  • Option 2: All Day Method. Let the mixture sit for several hours to cool and set. As it's setting, whip every couple of hours during the course of the day until the mixture has set to the correct texture.


Spoon into dark glass or PET plastic jars. To reduce air bubbles, tap the jar sharply on the counter occasionally as you're filling it. Makes about 8 ounces (250ml) of body butter massage cream.

Customizing Your Body Butter Recipe

The recipe above makes a sweet edible body butter - no yucky-tasting essential oils (they smell wonderful but mostly taste dreadful!)

If you want to scent your body butter massage cream, you can omit the honey powder and add one of the following blends:

Cheerful Citrus

8 drops each grapefruit, orange and bergamot

2 drops each geranium and ylang ylang

Buy grapefruit, orange, bergamot, geranium, ylang ylang

Soothing Lavender

12 drops each lavender and orange

2 drops each chamomile and ylang ylang

Buy lavender, orange, chamomile, ylang ylang

Sensual Rose

8 drops each lavender, palmarosa and rose

2 drops each clary sage and geranium

Buy lavender, palmarosa, rose, clary sage, geranium

Exotic Sandalwood

10 drops sandalwood

8 drops patchouli, 8 drops orange

1 drop each clove, ginger, vetiver and ylang ylang

Buy sandalwood, patchouli, orange, clove, ginger, vetiver, ylang ylang

You can reduce the strength of the scent by decreasing the number of drops of essential oils. Don't increase the essential oils, however, since they should only be a certain percentage of the total recipe.

Stirring the mixture with a spoon will give you a firm consistency, more like a body butter bar than a whipped butter. Pour the hot, liquid body butter into a deodorant tube or a silicone cupcake mold and let it cool.

Choosing carrier oils for your skin type: For a more moisturizing body butter massage cream, use Kukui Nut or Almond oil. These oils are also good for eczema and psoriasis.

Play around with the recipe - experiment to see what you like best.

Where to Buy Body Butter Ingredients

My favorite supplier for aromatherapy recipe ingredients - especially the basics like butters and Vitamin E oil - is Mountain Rose Herbs. Their prices are good, their staff are friendly and helpful, and their quality is excellent. Here's some quick links to the ingredients you'll need for this edible body butter massage cream...

For .essential oils, I use doTerra. After comparing and experimenting with my recipes, I saw that recipes using doTerra's oils worked faster and better - plus I never experiences any of the glitches, like headaches or skin irritation, that happen with some other brands.

doTerra's oils cost more, which makes sense because with essential oils, you always get what you pay for. Spending a little more for something stronger and cleaner makes sense to me. (Plus I actually use fewer drops than the recipes call for, which cuts costs. Genius!)

You can shop doTerra retail by clicking the Shop button at the top. Or click Join & Save to become a wholesale customer and get 25% discount. Message me to get more info on the perks of wholesale membership. Discounts are awesome!

If you're someone who loves choices, Amazon is great. You can compare, read reviews, and there's lots of price ranges to fit your budget. Just remember to buy the best essential oils you can afford - they go directly into your bloodstream, so you don't want junk.

What Next?

Go ahead and try these other aromatherapy body butter recipes...

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Vanilla Cream Massage Oil Lotion Bar

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How to Find More Aromatherapy Recipes

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Just type in "sensual" (without the quotes) and hit Search. Every page on this website that includes the word Sensual will pop up. Poke through them and decide what recipe to try next.

This also works if you're looking for a certain ingredient, such as shea butter, for example. Follow the same process to find every recipe containing shea butter. Enjoy!